Work it out,
peacefully.

You and the other person each talk it through privately with your own AI — then send messages back and forth on your own time. No live chat, no pressure to reply on the spot.

So your counterparty knows who’s reaching out — used in your invitation email and on the desk.

We’ll send you a magic link to sign in. No password.

We respect your privacy. Your email and anything you share stays private — never sold, never shared with third parties.

See how it works

How it works

Two sides. Two AIs. One calm path through.

1

Talk it through, privately

Tell your AI what happened — vent, think out loud, work out what you actually want. No one else ever sees this part.

2

Say it without the heat

When you’re ready, your AI helps you put it into words the other side can actually hear. They’re doing the same, on their own time.

3

Reach agreement

Messages go back and forth, calmly, until you land on something you both can live with — and it’s written down.

What it’s for

For the conversations that are hard to start.

The disputes where emotions run high and a face-to-face would go sideways. Sämja gives both sides room to think.

Personal & family
Roommate friction Co-parenting plans A falling-out with a friend Landlord & tenant Splitting shared costs Family disagreements Neighbour conflicts
Professional & financial
Unpaid freelance work A contractor dispute HOA dispute Business partnership Real estate conversation Employer & employee Vendor contract dispute

Why it feels different

Built for calm, not confrontation.

Most tools throw you into a live argument. Sämja does the opposite — space, privacy, and time to think, on both sides.

Private by default

Your side of the conversation stays yours. The other party never sees how you got there.

No real-time pressure

No live chat, no being put on the spot. Respond when you’ve had time to think it through.

A record you can keep

When you reach agreement, it’s written down and exportable — something you can both refer back to.

Start when you’re ready

sämja — the state of being in accord: harmony, good relations, and the quiet peace of having worked something out.

Work it out, peacefully